May192013

gothlolita:

im Sorry but you two cant get the marriage. the bible said Adam and Eve not matthew and ashley. come back when youve legally changed your names

(via katielf)

9PM

aswefindwhereweare:

another night

I squeeze my pillow
Until maybe one day
It can turn into a real boy

Sick
Of feeling like the last scoop
Of ice cream
Not enough to satisfy,
Too much to throw away.

Until then I guess
I’ll just eat myself
as well as my feelings

May152013
3PM

politicko:

typette:

I remember posting somewhere once in a thread about why girls aren’t exploited in animation anymore where some guy said, “all the disney girls are drawn to be generally attractive, but I don’t think there are any eye-candy men… or are there? Are there any Disney men that lots of girls like?” and I mentioned Roger. Tons of girls replied agreeing with me and the original guy was like “wait, Roger? from 101 Dalmatians? What’s attractive about him, he’s tall and lanky and has a big nose, he isn’t muscley at all! Wouldn’t you all prefer Gaston or something? Or do you girls think his big nose is indicative of something else?” and I was like “no, you idiot, he’s a silly, goofy guy who likes animals and can play a bunch of instruments, that’s why he’s attractive. What’s the matter with you? Gaston, seriously?”

This is why we need more girls in animation. And more guys like Roger apparently. 

(Source: nostalgiaunicorn, via katielf)

3PM

thegoddamazon:

maymay:

“Repeat Rape: How do they get away with it?”, Part 1 of 2. (link to Part 2)

Sources:

  1. College Men: Repeat Rape and Multiple Offending Among Undetected Rapists,Lisak and Miller, 2002 [PDF, 12 pages]
  2. Navy Men: Lisak and Miller’s results were essentially duplicated in an even larger study (2,925 men): Reports of Rape Reperpetration by Newly Enlisted Male Navy Personnel, McWhorter, 2009 [PDF, 16 pages]

By dark-side-of-the-room, who writes:

These infogifs are provided RIGHTS-FREE for noncommercial purposes. Repost them anywhere. In fact, repost them EVERYWHERE. No need to credit. Link to the L&M study if possible.

Knowledge is a seed; sow it.

Pretty much.

(via angeliqueshadows)

3PM

louderdecibelle:

koizumim:

really though

if breasts, butts and legs are so distracting to men, to the point they cant function

why arent they that distracting to lesbians

and at that point

why isnt the penis bulge and legs not distracting enough to gay men to warrant men being put under the same dress codes

(via katielf)

2PM

norsegays:

astrolope:

People being angry about ~dem gays~ on Target’s Facebook.

I just want to give my two cents on this and tell you a story.

A couple weeks ago, I was hired at Target. I have a job at Target. Not a big deal right?

It is a big deal because i’m a transman

It doesn’t take a genius to conclude that it’s hard for me, my brothers, and sisters to get a job. There are legal restraints regarding the job and if you don’t pass, it’s hard to be taken seriously at a job interview.

Right on the application, it asks what your preferred name is. It also asks if there is anything that target should know. I put the fact that I am a transman, expecting not to get a call because usually when you put that down, people will throw out the application. I got TWO interviews.

At the interview, they asked me about it. I told them I am on hormones and they told me that they didn’t care. Not in the sense that they don’t emotionally care, but that it didn’t matter. I was male and that’s all that mattered. They also told me that they give sex same couples benefits in states that do not recognize them as a married couple.

At my job orientation, I was not misgendered once. Even my supervisors who weren’t sure of my gender avoided pronoun use, which I found only happens when you’ve had pronoun training. They gave me a name tag with my preferred name and didn’t ask questions. I felt safe and respected, which is huge for a trans* person.

TLDR: Target is amazing not just for the LGB, but also the T. Shop there for the rest of your life.

(via katielf)

1PM

pincushioned:

CUSTOM COMIC BOOK SHOES GIVEAWAY!
I’m about to move apartments and while clearing out my (huge excess of) stuff, I found a number of comics that I don’t want but frankly can’t bring myself to just throw away when I could do something creative with them.  I’ve also been wanting to do something as a thank you to all of you fabulous people who are inexplicably following this blog, so I thought: how about a custom shoe giveaway?

Everyone has a different comfort threshold for shoes and I don’t have a large selection of different sizes just lying around, so the catch in this giveaway is: you have to send me the pair of shoes you want customized.  They can be whatever you want: old, new, simple, crazy, cheap, fancy—just remember that I’m gluing paper to these, so don’t send me your $200 heels unless you’re really okay with that!  Depending on the style of the shoe, I may add other decorations (such as with the Fantastic Four wedge heels I made for Ammy, above).  You provide the shoes and ship them to me, but I’ll cover the cost of shipping them back again, all decked out.  I will ship internationally.  

Just a few caveats for the shoes:
  • They have to have enough surface area for me to effectively cover with comics (no strappy sandals, unless we’re talking really broad straps and/or a hell of a lot of heel/platform for me to work with) 
  • They have to have a relatively firm form (for example: no sneakers or fabric Converse—they just bend and crinkle too much and the paper would tear despite the sealant)
  • Boots cannot have a shaft higher than approximately ankle height.  Platforms/heels can be as tall as you want.
  • I reserve the artistic license to decide how much of the shoe gets covered in comics and what other decorations are made.  I might cover the heel in comics, or if the heel is hot pink suede, I might leave it as is!  Or I might cover it in glitter, or add a bow, or metal studs.  It’ll be a surprise!
Here are the comics you get to choose from: 

DC:
Catwoman
Lobo
Extreme Justice
various single issues

Marvel:
Wolverine
Fantastic Four
Punisher
Daredevil
X-Factor
various single issues

Manga:
King of Bandits: Jing (English)
Gravitation (English)
RAI (English)
D-Gray Man (Japanese)
Naruto (Japanese)

You can also request any sort of combination, such as “Fantastic Four + Daredevil” or “all DC” or even an era if you only want old-school art or post-90s art on your shoes.  
If you don’t want any of these, you can also send your own comics!

Rules
  • You must be following this blog (pincushioned) at the close of the giveaway period.  
  • Reblogs and likes are each one chance to win.  You can reblog as many times as you want for more chances, but, you know, be respectful of your followers and don’t spam?
  • You must have Asks open so I can contact you if you win!
  • This is not a commission; I do have other projects that take priority and sometimes real life intrudes.  That said, I will ship your completed shoes no later than August 31st, and probably well before that.
  • This giveaway will run until June 15th.  Get your reblogs in before then!

(via robinade)

1PM

pincushioned:

CUSTOM COMIC BOOK SHOES GIVEAWAY!
I’m about to move apartments and while clearing out my (huge excess of) stuff, I found a number of comics that I don’t want but frankly can’t bring myself to just throw away when I could do something creative with them.  I’ve also been wanting to do something as a thank you to all of you fabulous people who are inexplicably following this blog, so I thought: how about a custom shoe giveaway?

Everyone has a different comfort threshold for shoes and I don’t have a large selection of different sizes just lying around, so the catch in this giveaway is: you have to send me the pair of shoes you want customized.  They can be whatever you want: old, new, simple, crazy, cheap, fancy—just remember that I’m gluing paper to these, so don’t send me your $200 heels unless you’re really okay with that!  Depending on the style of the shoe, I may add other decorations (such as with the Fantastic Four wedge heels I made for Ammy, above).  You provide the shoes and ship them to me, but I’ll cover the cost of shipping them back again, all decked out.  I will ship internationally.  

Just a few caveats for the shoes:
  • They have to have enough surface area for me to effectively cover with comics (no strappy sandals, unless we’re talking really broad straps and/or a hell of a lot of heel/platform for me to work with) 
  • They have to have a relatively firm form (for example: no sneakers or fabric Converse—they just bend and crinkle too much and the paper would tear despite the sealant)
  • Boots cannot have a shaft higher than approximately ankle height.  Platforms/heels can be as tall as you want.
  • I reserve the artistic license to decide how much of the shoe gets covered in comics and what other decorations are made.  I might cover the heel in comics, or if the heel is hot pink suede, I might leave it as is!  Or I might cover it in glitter, or add a bow, or metal studs.  It’ll be a surprise!
Here are the comics you get to choose from: 

DC:
Catwoman
Lobo
Extreme Justice
various single issues

Marvel:
Wolverine
Fantastic Four
Punisher
Daredevil
X-Factor
various single issues

Manga:
King of Bandits: Jing (English)
Gravitation (English)
RAI (English)
D-Gray Man (Japanese)
Naruto (Japanese)

You can also request any sort of combination, such as “Fantastic Four + Daredevil” or “all DC” or even an era if you only want old-school art or post-90s art on your shoes.  
If you don’t want any of these, you can also send your own comics!

Rules
  • You must be following this blog (pincushioned) at the close of the giveaway period.  
  • Reblogs and likes are each one chance to win.  You can reblog as many times as you want for more chances, but, you know, be respectful of your followers and don’t spam?
  • You must have Asks open so I can contact you if you win!
  • This is not a commission; I do have other projects that take priority and sometimes real life intrudes.  That said, I will ship your completed shoes no later than August 31st, and probably well before that.
  • This giveaway will run until June 15th.  Get your reblogs in before then!

May142013

Sex is not a goddamn performance.

Sex should feel as natural as drinking water.

It should not require confidence.

Sex should happen, because the moment is ripe.

Ripening lips, ripening labia, ripening cock, ripening pupils, ripening state of being. Ripe and augmented and brimming. Your energy goes to your pumping heart, then to every external nerve, then to theirs, on fire.

You bask, roll, play in it. You sigh, moan, laugh.

It’s not about being “good in bed.”

It’s about being happy.

One should never worry if they’re doing it “correctly.” Sex is not factual. I don’t want your cookie-cutter sex, I don’t want your meticulously crafted, calculated, fool-proof fuck. I don’t want a show. I want you. Let your instincts, urges and whims define that. It’s enough.

What do most girls like? Forget about it. Statistics are meaningless when there’s only one. Hello, here’s me. Here’s you.

Don’t worry about taking it too slow. We got time. We got infinite rhythms, combinations, possibilities. Explore each fuck. Take our time. We can do a different one later.

Don’t worry about making me come. I’m here. Right where I want to be.

I am overwhelmed by wanting; you don’t have to convince me. I want you because I like you. So don’t put on a front. Don’t taint this.

I’m frustrated—it’s just authenticity I want.

It’s originality.

It’s passion.

It’s joy.

Don’t say that something I like is ugly. Don’t compare yourself to the rest. You will live and die with and within your experiences like everyone else. If someone thinks you are amazing, they are not wrong. Their universe is as real as any other; it is forged through perception.

I don’t care if you accidentally slammed my head into the wall, if you slipped out, if my arm cracked, if the delightful pressure of your wet lips on my anything made a silly sound. There is no right way and no wrong way.

“Good in bed,” what.

You’re good in my bed. I’m pleased you’re there. I feel it suits you.

Shove your technique. Let your memory swallow it. Fuck me like you’d fuck me, fuck me like you feel.

This isn’t a test.

(via infernalserpent)

(Source: nikolaiolivier, via crazyandrew)

May132013
4PM
recoverykitty:

These links work as of 5/7/13.  
None of the links require downloads, plug in installs, or signing up for anything of ANY KIND. Those are just ads, click out of them and press play. If you’re struggling, this chrome plug in will make your life easier. 
Subbed = speaking in japanese with english subtitles
Dubbed = speaking in english (usually with no subtitles)
The Cat Returns: subbed | dubbed
Grave of the Fireflies: subbed | dubbed
Horus: Prince of the Sun: subbed | x
Howl’s Moving Castle: subbed | dubbed
Kiki’s Delivery Service:  subbed | dubbed
Laputa: Castle in the Sky: subbed | dubbed
My Neighbor Totoro:  subbed | dubbed
My Neighbors the Yamadas:  subbed | dubbed
Nausicaa of the Valley of the Wind: subbed | dubbed
Only Yesterday: subbed | x
Panda! Go Panda!: subbed | x
Pom Poko: subbed | dubbed
Ponyo on the Cliff by the Sea: subbed | dubbed 
Porco Rosso: subbed | dubbed
Princess Mononoke: subbed | dubbed
The Secret World of Arrietty: subbed | dubbed
Spirited Away: subbed | dubbed
Tales from Earthsea: subbed | dubbed
Whisper of the Heart: subbed | dubbed

recoverykitty:

These links work as of 5/7/13.  

None of the links require downloads, plug in installs, or signing up for anything of ANY KIND. Those are just ads, click out of them and press play. If you’re struggling, this chrome plug in will make your life easier. 

Subbed = speaking in japanese with english subtitles

Dubbed = speaking in english (usually with no subtitles)

(via crazyandrew)

May112013
beautifullyundressed:

buphotography:

This was one of my all time favorite pictures I have taken in my few years of doing photography.
The point of this picture and the people with bags over their heads is to represent what society does to genders. First off, people assume gender by body type but in this picture you could have two transgenders, one, both male, both female, or any other combination and we would still be the same… Human.
Now, women are victimized by wearing revealing clothing or not being afraid to show their bodies with pride as well as being comfortable with their sexuality, while a nearly nude male doing the exact same thing won’t be put down for showing off the body they have.
Regaurdless of what you take this message as, I just want everyone to realize that we are all the same kind and we are all unique. People have no right to judge another person by what they wear, or who they choose to be.
(For safety purposes on this picture I had taken a picture of this from my wall) 
© BU Photography 2013

I am actually like crying at the amount of notes on this in a 10 hour period. This is by far my best picture I have taken in a really long time. 
Thank you guys so much

beautifullyundressed:

buphotography:

This was one of my all time favorite pictures I have taken in my few years of doing photography.

The point of this picture and the people with bags over their heads is to represent what society does to genders. First off, people assume gender by body type but in this picture you could have two transgenders, one, both male, both female, or any other combination and we would still be the same… Human.

Now, women are victimized by wearing revealing clothing or not being afraid to show their bodies with pride as well as being comfortable with their sexuality, while a nearly nude male doing the exact same thing won’t be put down for showing off the body they have.

Regaurdless of what you take this message as, I just want everyone to realize that we are all the same kind and we are all unique. People have no right to judge another person by what they wear, or who they choose to be.

(For safety purposes on this picture I had taken a picture of this from my wall) 

© BU Photography 2013

I am actually like crying at the amount of notes on this in a 10 hour period. This is by far my best picture I have taken in a really long time. 

Thank you guys so much

(via lanubis)

12PM
“Princeton University psychologist Susan Fiske took brain scans of heterosexual men while they looked at sexualised images of women wearing bikinis. She found that the part of their brains that became activated was pre-motor - areas that usually light up when people anticipate using tools. The men were reacting to the images as if the women were objects they were going to act on. Particularly shocking was the discovery that the participants who scored highest on tests of hostile sexism were those most likely to deactivate the part of the brain that considers other people’s intentions (the medial prefrontal cortex) while looking at the pictures. These men were responding to images of the women as if they were non-human.” The Equality Illusion (via lesilencieux)

(Source: thoughtfulcynic, via toughtink)

May102013

To all those who don’t think the rape joke was a problem, or rape jokes are a problem.

I get it, you’re a decent guy. I can even believe it. You’ve never raped anybody. You would NEVER rape anybody. You’re upset that all these feminists are trying to accuse you of doing something or connect you to doing something that, as far as you’re concerned, you’ve never done and would never condone.

And they’ve told you about triggers, and PTSD, and how one in six women is a survivor, and you get it. You do. But you can’t let every time someone gets all upset get in the way of you having a good time, right?

So fine. If all those arguments aren’t going anything for you, let me tell you this. And I tell you this because I genuinely believe you mean it when you say you don’t want to hurt anybody, and you don’t see the harm, and that it’s important to you to do your best to be a decent and good person. And I genuinely believe you when you say you would never associate with a rapist and you think rape really is a very bad thing.

Because this is why I refuse to take rape jokes sitting down-

6% of college age men, slightly over 1 in 20, will admit to raping someone in anonymous surveys, as long as the word “rape” isn’t used in the description of the act.

6% of Penny Arcade’s target demographic will admit to actually being rapists when asked.

A lot of people accuse feminists of thinking that all men are rapists. That’s not true. But do you know who think all men are rapists?

Rapists do.

They really do. In psychological study, the profiling, the studies, it comes out again and again.

Virtually all rapists genuinely believe that all men rape, and other men just keep it hushed up better. And more, these people who really are rapists are constantly reaffirmed in their belief about the rest of mankind being rapists like them by things like rape jokes, that dismiss and normalize the idea of rape.

If one in twenty guys is a real and true rapist, and you have any amount of social activity with other guys like yourself, really cool guy, then it is almost a statistical certainty that one time hanging out with friends and their friends, playing Halo with a bunch of guys online, in a WoW guild, or elsewhere, you were talking to a rapist. Not your fault. You can’t tell a rapist apart any better than anyone else can. It’s not like they announce themselves.

But, here’s the thing. It’s very likely that in some of these interactions with these guys, at some point or another someone told a rape joke. You, decent guy that you are, understood that they didn’t mean it, and it was just a joke. And so you laughed.

And, decent guy who would never condone rape, who would step in and stop rape if he saw it, who understands that rape is awful and wrong and bad, when you laughed?

That rapist who was in the group with you, that rapist thought that you were on his side. That rapist knew that you were a rapist like him. And he felt validated, and he felt he was among his comrades.

You. The rapist’s comrade.

And if that doesn’t make you feel sick to your stomach, if that doesn’t make you want to throw up, if that doesn’t disturb you or bother you or make you feel like maybe you should at least consider not participating in that kind of humor anymore…

Well, maybe you aren’t as opposed to rapists as you claim.

Time-Machine (via a comment at shakesville.com)  (via heartswillpraise)

(via toughtink)

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